A few years ago, Glendon & I began to sense a holy nudge toward adoption. After a month or so…
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Parenting
When You Hate the Mirror: What I’m Learning About Belonging & My Body
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Recommended Adoption & Foster Care Resources
One of my favorite parts about adoption is the connections I’ve made with people all over the globe. I’ve come…
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How Down Syndrome Typically Affects Typical Siblings: An Interview with The Big Kids
When Glendon & I shared with The Big Kids that we were planning to adopt a child with Down syndrome,…
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On Bullying and Boundaries and Belonging
I don’t know what your life looks like these days but mine is bursting with the colorful personalities of four…
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Two Words To Remember This School Year
I find myself talking to The Big Kids quite a bit these days. At 10 and 8 years old, they’re…
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![When I think back to the early months of motherhood, those bleary-eyed, overwhelming days (nights?) of colic and learning the needs of my first born, I can hardly believe we're here.
The toddler who traipsed around in Huggies and heels, singing made-up tunes and chatting with her hilarious imaginary friend, Lackey, outgrew my heels two years ago. And for the past year, I've been looking up to her--literally.
The longer I parent, the more I discover this gift to be one long, winding road of learning to let go. From the moment she said, "My do it, Mommy," I knew we had begun to leave the days of her tiny hand snuggled in mine.
And while I know these seasons of greater independence are part of her journey, I'm still surprised when they arrive with another milestone at my door, another invitation to release. Some days I ache to hold on just a little longer.
Happy 17th, Sissy.
You're a gift to our home, to your friends, to this aching world.
[ID: A white teen girl with brown hair in 2 braids, wearing black leggings and a black hoodie, is walking in the woods. Sun beams are coming through the trees as she walks away from the camera.]
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